90 Day Fiance
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Last week, I said Kobe was one of my favorite90 Daydads.
I begged him not to disappoint me.
So, of course, this episode gets its title from a fight between Kobe and Emily.
Emily is used to breastfeeding in front of her family, which Kobe thinks is weird.
He also thinks its odd that Emily is still breastfeeding at seven months.
At first this seems like a cultural difference, but it turns into an issue of power dynamics.
Kobe wants to make it clear how he expects a wife to speak to him.
Emily has been raising her kid how she wants.
Also, kudos to her parents for staying out of the fight.
If these two are going to make mistakes, they wont be able to blame her familys influence.
Shaeeda meets Bilals kids this week and its as bad as their other family reunions have gone!
The kids bring up the baby issue and Bilal gaslights Shaeeda again.
Of course the kids arent comfortable calling her umi when it seems like she barely knows their father!
Shaeeda said she wants kids!
Make a choice, Bilal!
I really wanted to believe in their love story, but Thais hasnt even told her father the truth!
Its hard to believe she really believes in this marriage when she hasnt even told her dad about it.
Thais has an escape plan!
As messy as Thais and Patrick seem, they cant beat Ari and Bini.
Instead Ari is just shocked her parents would expect her to take on utility bills and rent!
Girl, what did you think!
She knows Bini cant work did she just move her family to America to live off her parents?
Even Karas family says shes never been serious about anyone.
Remember: This womans full-time job is balloons!
That is not the job of a serious woman who can support a husband!
Pretty quickly, Mohamed shows us he does not know how to cook or take care of himself.
Im pretty sure he didnt eat or do anything until Yve came back home.
Im ready for Yves friends to meet Mohamed!
I want Shaeeda to force the baby conversation!
I want Kara to get drunk and show Guillermo she isnt ready for marriage!
90 DayNotes
Emilys parents tried so hard to disappear into the background during that fight.
Theyre right, though: Its not a great sign these two are already fighting.
Also, their kid is going to have to get used to Kobe!
Let them spend the night together!
I do not think Mohamed is ready to babysit!
Bilal might be this seasons villain, but his kids are great!
I loved the daughters diplomatic answer on calling Shaeeda Mom.
Ill definitely take that into consideration.
Thais, listen to your family.
You are not going to like living in that frat house!
Shaeeda has a strong support system shell be okay without Bilal!
I like that she has people to turn to.
A lot of people this season are on their own.
I do like the nickname New Jersey Bini.
Shaeeda really loves that new house, doesnt she?
